Date #2 | anythingbutordinaryy's Blog
With Ryan. We met up in the city. The first thing he told me was that while he was overseas, he made out with a French girl. He said it wasn't anything more than that, and it's not like he "couldn't" since we had only been on one date before he left, but he wanted me to know in case I wasn't okay with it before he kissed me. I said it was totally fine. He paused as though he wanted me to tell him if I had made out with anyone, but I didn't say anything.
He won't find out about James - does he really need to know?
Anyway, then we walked around and he got me coffee. He actually seemed really quite happy to see me. We then went to his place and watched tv shows, followed by lunch at a Japanese restaurant, back to his place again, watching more tv shows, then made crepes.
I really like spending time with him. We're meeting up again next Tuesday. He's smart, funny, interesting and spontaneous. I love how he smiles so much every time he kisses me. I love that I don't have to be worried about how many other girls he's seeing cause he was so concerned about my potential reaction to hearing about the French girl. He's really respectful of boundaries. We both know we don't know each other well enough to have the trust for a lot of things.
I can honestly say that I'm quite happy being around him, and I'm still fairly happy now. I think he's a good influence on my life and how I think about things. He's consistent, stable and really smart. Of course that's only so far, so I'm not letting myself fall for him yet. But we'll see.
In non-Ryan related news, I've decided to finish my degree this year with a major in psychology, meaning I'll be doing 4 psychology subjects this semester. In addition, I feel like doing first year physics just to see if I like it/if I'm any good at it. That means I'll be overloading on subjects and have about 25 contact hours a week. It'll be difficult, but I'm sure I'll manage.
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